Recently, I was made aware of an individual’s son who had his head bashed in as he was walking to the store early one night from his apartment to get eggs for breakfast. It was a random attack by a number of youth.
It was a worrisome time for all of what the outcome would be. It turns out the bleeding and swelling on the brain was treatable. But what about the times there is not the ability for a positive outcome?
The students and faculty of Virginia Tech are remembered but how many did not have a chance to say they love the person or took the moment to make a positive remark to the person?
Matthew Shepard was remembered but what chance did people who love him or had something positive to say have to tell him?
Incidents of youth/young adults lashing out in violent ways for fun or to make a statement places too many people at risk.
Violence is around us every day and our society supports the delivery of the content.
Recognize the importance of families, friends and work as the cause of support as well as stress in our employees. The stress level of an individual is hard for each of us to understand and we can only try to provide those supports that make the stresses of life manageable.
Promote employee communication at work. Promote communication at home. Promote ways for employees and family members to obtain the supports they need. Helping employees to know where to obtain services only makes a stronger healthy employee for the organization. Set up an Employee Assistance Program.
In the USA there is an unusual level of focus on preventing most levels of discussion on sex or displaying it, but almost no restriction on violence. I question our state and federal leaders to identify whether the open access to all ages of violence content is the cause and root to more violence. Maybe it is time to release the restrictions on sex and place those restrictions on violence.
If each nonprofit organization supported the focus away from violence the community would be a better place. Many local domestic violence providers can help your organization set up an appropriate program for your employees and community.
A two pronged approach utilizing Employee Assistance Programs (to find a COA or EASNA Accredited Programs in your area click on the Employee Assistance Society of North America web site link http://www.easna.org/home.aspinc) and for programs relating to decreasing violence contact your local domestic violence provider. It will only improve the safety of our children, families, friends, the people you serve and employees.
One particular Employee Assistance program which I am very familar with when I was a government regulator was selected in a bid process by the Commonwealth of Massachusetts. Health Resources is a national organization with many years of expertise in this field serving employees of both nonprofit and for-profit organizations of many sizes. This employee assistance company should be able to come up with an affordable solution for your organization. Contact Sarah Stewart at 508-650-6893 or email her at sstewart@hlthres.com.
In is time for changing our country’s fixation on violence. Nonprofits are the largest employee group covering every corner of America. Make a difference and do something positive towards reducing the violence.
Maybe the new motto for the USA should be “Sex Not Violence”!!!!!!