Hate=Violence
Friday, September 28th, 2007An instinctive reaction to fear is fight or flee. An individual’s reasoning causing their reaction does not have to be based on truth but can be a perception. Therefore, when groups use false information to create a perceived threat many individuals do not really know if the threat is real. Their first reaction is based on their ability to cope with the situation. Youth have not at this point in their life gained the coping skills to resolve conflict without striking out forcefully. The Matthew Shepard attack may have been such a reaction.
Causes of death between the ages of 15-24, according to the CDC, are: first accidents, second murder, and third suicide. Groups that teach hate only confuse youth more. It is hard enough for them to understand that in their sphere of family, school and community, love and hate can be directed to and from the same person. Teaching youth the tools to resolve conflict within themselves is critical to teaching them to resolve conflict with others.
Maybe the increase in violence among youth is due to the fact that society supports their exposure to violent content but not to sexual content. Violence is okay but sex is not. Hate is okay by adults but not kids. Remember free speech does have its consequences and children and youth do hear. Behavior is learned from adults and shared among peers.
The Boston Globe wrote in its 9/25/2007 edition about the pending Matthew Shepard Act in Congress. It focuses on fabricated information by individuals throughout the USA who have stated that it is a bill to arrest clergy and storm churches.
It is about stopping hate crimes. Stopping Violence!!!!!! Supporting our youth helps us all.


